A Private Network For Gays Around
The World

Curated Intros
Unexpected Gatherings

In Person Connections

Where You Live
Where You travel

Curated Intros & City Gatherings
For You

Welcome To Sector

How It Works

#1 Apply

Apply to join.
Or get a referral
from an existing member

#2 Meet Neil

Your coordinator.
He gets to know you through
text and phone calls

#3 Get Intro’d

A curated introduction
and monthly gatherings
in New York

Sector Membership

By Application & referral

  • The Sector Membership Board considers many factors, but the core question we ask is: How might we collaborate with this candidate?

    You don’t need to be a celebrity, a power broker, or a Nobel Laureate. What matters most is a clear sense of who you are and who referred you.

    Membership is designed to be long-term. Because each member plays a role in shaping the culture, re-entry isn’t available once a membership ends.

  • Annual membership is $450. A one-time initiation fee may apply for new members.

  • Sector blends personal service with real-world connection.

    Members have 24/7 access to Neil, your personal AI coordinator who gets to know you and curates an introduction each month. This is hand-selected and sent to your inbox.

    You’ll also receive invitations to private gatherings in your city and abroad.

    We’re most active in New York (for now), but members live everywhere: San Francisco, Miami, Marrakech, Paris, London, Stockholm, Mexico City, and beyond.

  • Click “Apply to Join” above.

    Most members are nominated by someone already within the network. Occasionally, we reach out directly to those whose work, energy, or story resonates with us.

  • Our Membership & Community Board reviews applications and extend invitations on a rolling basis. Due to limited availability, those not immediately accepted are placed on our waitlist for future consideration.

  • Not no. While a permanent space isn’t our current focus, we believe community lives in people, not in walls. For now, we’re focused on creating connections wherever our members are. You may spot a pop-up house or two (especially in collaboration with your favorite brands).